Brainyclown, 49

Smart, sexy, silly, sane seeks same... soon. Being that the favorite topic of conversation of the American Male is himself, one would think that this would be easier than it is. I don't fit into many male stereotypes, but I probably fit into more than I realize. I am fun and silly: always looking to find the humor in everything. This is one of those traits that women love... at first. Sure, I can have a serious side when I need it. But laughter is good for the soul. Although, ICE CREAM is also good for the soul.

What always makes the girls say "awww": I send my mom flowers on MY birthday. (She was in labor for 16 hours. Ever since then I've enjoyed warm baths and long naps.)

Why you'll want to keep me around: I cook, I have good toilet seat etiquette, I'm just the right amount of macho and just the right amount of sensitive, I'm supportive, I listen, I don't sweat the small stuff, I am good to your family, your friends love me, I give good foot massages, I give good advice, I give good... ahem.

Things I like: comedy, writing, travel, adventure, reading, languages, learning, exploring, dabbling, martial arts, wine, good food, the outdoors, music, guitar and piano, dreamers, being creative, making people laugh.

Things I eschew: negative people, low self-esteem, lack of motivation, lack of passion, boredom, the word "eschew". Gesundheit.

Things that aren't in this profile: how often I "work out", my preference for "walking on the beach.

Why I'm a great ally for Trivial Pursuit: I know the names of all seven dwarves, all the words to every song in Willy Wonka, can explain theoretical physics to anyone (except a physicist).

Why your silly idea is awesome: I'm extremely supportive. I love people who attack life and pursue happiness. I'm drawn to that energy as well as emanate it. I love creative, imaginative dreamers with their feet firmly on the ground but their head in the clouds. I'm one, too. That's why I'm here. If you read this far, it might be why you're here, too. We should talk.