Vulcansology, 24

I am Selik, a genderfluid individual with a mind for philosophy, an eye for art, and a taste for fruit. My hobbies include baking, gardening, reading, writing, cosplaying and studying the Vulcan language alongside the German language. I am extremely socially awkward in public settings and tend to avoid them to the best of my ability. What am I looking for? A cosplay partner. A lover. A T'hy'la (by ancient Vulcan standards, it's technically written 'T'hai'la', because there is no y vowel in golic vulcan writing). I have a plethora of Vulcan cultural facts, canon knowledge and headcanons, please ask away if curiosity strikes.