Shanefreund, 46

I just had bariatric surgery and I'm working on being a healthier me. I love Star Trek and most things Sci-Fi, Fantasy, Comics and geek in general. I have no real experience dating. I was always to insecure. But now I'm finding a new confidence I never knew was there. I'm a liberal and I hate trump. But I won't harp on it just putting it out there.

I'm looking for h--k ups as well as relationship potential. I know this next part won't really be the most attractive thing about me but I believe in honesty even if it hurts. I live in my parents basement. Luckily they are very seldom here. They travel a lot and I watch the house.

Because of my weight causing constant pain in my joints I've lived on my VA pension for a long time with no job. Now that I've had surgery and the weight is coming off I'm getting healthy and in the coming months I'm getting back into the job market. I hope that the ladies can see past all that.

I believe in romance, cuddling and all that stuff. I like the idea of bringing home flowers for my woman or sending them to her at work. If you just want to get together and "Netflix and chill" I'm down for that too. Like many of us these days money is tight for me but I can always find a little something for the movies and dinner somewhere nice. I'm not a heavy drinker these days I got that out in my twenties.

If you want to give me a chance I'm here. I look forward to meeting you.