Jshadow12, 47

Single Dad Looking... Been separated (legally... by court order) for over 2 years. I have no intentions on getting back with my wife what so ever and couldn't if I wanted to (the court would take my children away if I did and that ain't happening!). I have sole custody of my children, so I don't get out much. Filing for divorce and seeking something that I hope will be long term (hopefully with the really really right person this time!!!! LOL) sometime in the future. My children are my life and they come first so a relationship would be difficult but not impossible. I have a big heart and would love to eventually share it with someone... The RIGHT someone. I am not going to lie... My children need a mother but I am very picky about who meets them and when. I guarantee the one thing you will get from me is honesty. I only ask for the same from you. BTW... I see a lot of women on here and other sites who say they are looking for an honest man, but when you meet them they look nothing like their pictures because their pictures are either old or altered. I am not a shallow person when it comes to looks, but an initial meeting should not have shock value! Where's the honesty there? They are not even honest with themselves. I look like my pics... Do you?

More about me:

The main picture on my profile is the most recent. It was taken on 3/24/2012.

1st... I am not the average dirtbag that you see on here... so NO I don't want to see your naked pics. 2nd There would have to be one hell of a connection between us for me to sleep with you on the first date or even the second date for that matter so don't expect that to happen if we decide to meet.

I consider myself a gentleman so don't get offended if I open a door or two for you and don't hang all over you and attempt to grope in public. There are classy ways of showing you affection for someone.

Chivalry is not dead, it is just forgotten by most.

Aside from being a father, I value my career in the military and i plan on