Leap of Faith

[lucifer666 (deleted)]

I have now come to the realization my ..erm....friend like a bolt from the blue, exactly why Pam left you Ninjabear ...... You have no sense of humour buddy and you seem really intense too .....lighten up bud shake that armour off it may be shiny but its making you stiff. As for my cartoon devil I think I look rather cute .....that was a joke too by the way I know these things seem to go over your head!!! And I didn't realise my opinions whether they are up to your higher standard of morals or not where unwanted unless I reveal a picture of my true self .... the truth is if I I don't want to put up a picture of myself that surely is my business and not yours Ninjabear. I'm looking for friends with a sense of humour and appreciate mine I guess I'm looking in the wrong place ......perhaps thats why here is so quiet!!!

Oh and here's a final thought for you Ninjabear perhaps you were a tad too excessive in that cherishing and respecting ....perhaps you smothered her that she couldn't wait to escape ....and one thing is for sure you wouldn't be the first.. I suggest you loosen up or Pam won't be the last.

[ninjabear]

I do believe you have confirmed something my grandfather always said.
Four things a real Irishman can't pass up (in no particular order):
An honest wager
a free drink
a good fight
a beautiful woman

(You're wrong about me, of course, but don't let that stop you.)

I made my best effort to avoid smothering---anything that would drive her off. As for my sense of humor, you're just seeing the moping, "damn, the B---- done left me" side. Because duty, honor, loyalty and commitment to others are not merely words to me, doesn't mean I'm not a happy go lucky bear.
Example: If you're my friend, anyone who wants a piece of you has to get through me first; that's the kind of guy I am.

You may fire as your guns bear, you little devil.

[shadownymph_PREV (deleted)]

Try ending up as the "friend"

[ninjabear]

You mean, back where I started?
I can live with that---have before, anyway. If the relationship is real, sometimes it has to go full circle so that you can start again with someone new without losing a good friend.

That said, I owe no loyalty to one who has betrayed me.

[ninjabear]

Knowing she had trouble with psychotic stalker X-boyfriends before, I never went to her; Pam always came to me whenever she felt like some fun (you have no idea how much restraint that took).

I'm convinced Pam only got with me because she was afraid of a psycho boyfriend. Apparently Donald only got 5 years for his attempt on her life, and she told me he'd promised to finish the job.
When Donald suicided---shot and blown up, nothing like making sure---Pam stayed with me longer than she meant to because, by her own admission, I give great foreplay.

Once Pam didn't need me to protect her she started coming by less & less, and spent less time with me when she did show up---that's why it took over three weeks to figure out I had been cut loose. When she did see fit to render some sort of explanation---6 weeks after her last visit---Pam tried to sell me a story that sent my B.S. detector off the scale.
Long story short: Jesus doesn't want her to play with boys anymore.
Show of hands; who believes that for two seconds in a row?

[lucifer666 (deleted)]

Oh c'mon Ninjabear I just don't know what way to take you bud what I do know is this ....it is sounding more like a plotline from Days Of Our Lives every minute or is it that all Americans have lives like this I don't know ...I live a quiet enough life in Ireland so its difficult to imagine that there are others having such events in theirs, whats amazing is the effortless way you just implement these occurences into your heartbroken tale like you are recalling a walk in the park. Like please.....he shot and blew himself up.............by your ex Pam's own admission you give great foreplay and now your suggesting she either is going to live the celibate life or turn Lesbian. You have to be having us on here ....either that or get yourself unto a Jerry Springer type show

[ninjabear]

Thanks for the laugh, you little devil; though sadly, this is confirmable fact.
Donald was headed in Pam's direction when he was cornered by the Pennsylvania State Police, while driving the car he stole from the family he murdered; he decided he did not want to be taken alive.
Feeling safe, Pam eventually offered up a load of organic fertilizer; a slap in the face, figuratively speaking, because soon after I ran into a guy she hit on (she used the same pickup line on him, that she used on me).
All this crud falling on me does have a soap opera feel to it and I agree; I'm still waiting for Jerry Springer to get back to me---but perhaps you need to get out more? Seek adventure, my friend! As bad as I hurt, I would not surrender a single moment of my time with Pam, for example:
(at a fine dining establishment) "So, what do you like to do now?"
Pam: "I want s--."
Ninjabear: "OH YEAH---CHECK PLEASE! I NEED MY CHECK RIGHT HERE---you, waiter, fetch my check!"
Good times...oh yeah.

[invisiblesteph]

This has got to be one of the most entertaining threads so far LOL ... and seriously Ninjabear... do we really need to know 'pams' thoughts on how well you are in bed?!

[ninjabear]

Invisiblesteph: To answer your question, hardly.
I was there, I know what happened, I shan't boast or make claims; however you are welcome to find out for yourself, milady.

[lucifer666 (deleted)]

lol I ....I need to get out more?? Well one thing is for sure I won't be heading to any rural parts of Pennsylvania I'll tell you that!!


Oh And I seen Invisiblesteph first Ninjabear not that with that undeniable charm of yours I'm sure I haven't a chance And our beautiful Steph here also digs your kind of world ...well she likes the comic Johnny the homicidal maniac!!!

I still am convinced your having us all on .......now not only was your ex abused by a sadistic fella who did time for assaulting her, who threatened to finish the job, and then apparently commited suicide by shooting and blowing himself up?? .... We now discover that he was chased down by the State police while driving a stolen car that he had taken from the murdered family which you just throw in there like you were saying he took a piece of gum. How did he get blown up and was there many in the family he murdered? enquiring minds wish to know!! And mate you aren't waiting on Jerry Springer trust me I know....... quite simply you would be on it straight away your an entire show yourself. " Seek Adventure" you advise bud!........ I'll try but if its okay with you I'll try and stay away from masochistic ex's of murderers. Seriously did it ever cross your mind that you may have been putting yourself and family in danger by dating such a woman with an ex like that .....okay we all want a woman who says she wants S-- at a restaurant (though being honest I like to finish off my dessert afterwards and a nice cup of tea or coffee ) but was that personal gratification really worth risking lives. I wonder if you had to have said to her "No I want to finish my cuisine ...sorry Dear maybe later ...if I'm in the mood.... thanks though" instead of the overly excited response you actually did give........... would she have been mad? mmmmmmm I wonder :

If nothing else Ninjabear Steph is absolutely right its a very entertaining thread.

[ninjabear]

Okay so first, Lucifer666: "The game isn't big enough, if it doesn't scare you a little."
I'm trying to keep these posts brief, and have fallen back on previous experience as a reporter (oh way, way too long ago).
You saw her first? Meaningless, as it's always Lady's Choice.
I'm not "having you on" or as we oft put it here, "yanking your chain"; I ventured into the world. Try it, you'll like it now if you'd please be quiet, I'm waiting for Invisiblesteph to answer (trust me, you will find this quite entertaining).

[invisiblesteph]

ok to quote a car number plate I saw yesterday " WTF LOL "

[ninjabear]

Yup, that's exactly the sort of response to my invitation I expected, thank you invisiblesteph.
Whatever you're thinking or feeling, even if you write off my offer as pure male bravado...like it or not, deep down somewhere, a part of you wants to know what makes me so damn sure of myself.
The real question is, are you woman enough to handle all my hot wild teddy bear luuuvv?

[invisiblesteph]

hahaha... deep down somewhere a part of me is still laughing at that comment.

[ninjabear]

Good.